Finding the right one might look like a trend nowadays, but it is just a wish that dwell in each of us. It is absolutely normal to reach a certain age, and to start thinking about finding that special person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Have you ever think of the fact that “right person” is also thinking about finding the right person to spend the rest of his life with, and it is you? He can’t find you because you don’t work enough to be the right person he is looking for. It is a little bit selfish to constantly think about finding the right person, while you don’t do anything to be the right person to that person too. You want to be with an ambitious person, but how much of your time do you devote to work on your personal projects? You want to date a handsome person, but when was the last time you went to the gym? You want a person who is clean, but when was the last time you cleaned your place? Today, have a look inside of you, and around you, and see if you would attract the person you are looking if you still in that position. You only attract who you are, it is true that opposite attract too, but opposites attract when they complete each other, otherwise they will end up fighting against each other because of their differences.